As parents, we hold a profound responsibility in shaping the lives and destinies of our children. The Bible reminds us that children are a gift from God, and it is our duty to nurture, unwrap that gift while positioning and guide them in a way that aligns with His divine plans here on earth.
Here are 8 practical ways we can actively enforce our child’s destiny, drawing on biblical wisdom and teachings.
Understanding Your Child is a Gift: Psalm 127:3 tells us, “Children are a heritage from the Lord, offspring a reward from him.” This verse underscores the importance of recognizing that our children are not just our own but are entrusted to us by God. Understanding this divine gift encourages us to take our role seriously ask we nurture their potential in accordance with God’s will and purpose for them.
The Power of Guidance: The role of a parent is akin to that of a shepherd, guiding their flock. Proverbs 22:6 instructs us, “Start children off on the way they should go, and even when they are old they will not turn from it.” This verse emphasizes the importance of instilling values, morals, and faith in our children from a young age. By providing consistent guidance and teaching them about the love and ways of Christ, we lay a solid foundation for their future.
Praying for Your Child’s Destiny: Prayer is indeed a powerful tool in shaping our children’s destinies. James 5:16 tells us, “The prayer of a righteous person is powerful and effective.” But who is a righteous person? A righteous person is someone who has a right standing with God. Through the blood of Christ, our relationship with God is restored, which empowers our prayers on behalf of our children. As we engage in prayer, we also strive to live according to God’s will. Our children observe our lives, witnessing the model of Christ reflected in us, and as a result, they are inspired to follow in those footsteps.
Modeling Faith and Values: Children learn by observing their parents. In Deuteronomy 6:6-7, we are instructed to “impress [God’s commands] on your children. Talk about them when you sit at home and when you walk along the road, when you lie down and when you get up.” By modeling a life of faith, integrity, and love, we create an environment where our children can thrive and understand the importance of their own faith journeys.
We Speak Powerful Blessings Over Them: As devoted parents, we should consistently and actively speak uplifting blessings over our precious children, because our heartfelt words hold profound authority over their lives, surpassing the influence of anyone else. By expressing our sincere hopes, unwavering encouragement, and loving affirmations, we nurture their growing confidence and shape their evolving identity.
Encouraging Talents and Passions: Every child is uniquely created with gifts and talents. Ephesians 2:10 reminds us, “For we are God’s handiwork, created in Christ Jesus to do good works, which God prepared in advance for us to do.” As parents, it is our duty to recognize and nurture these talents. Encourage your children to explore their passions, whether in sports, arts, academics, or other areas, and provide them with opportunities to develop these skills.
Teaching Resilience by Allowing Them to Witness Your Struggles and Sharing Your Inspiring Testimonies: Life will inevitably present various challenges, but teaching our children to be resilient is crucial. By practically sharing your authentic struggles with them, you can encourage them to pray alongside you. This doesn’t mean divulging every intricate detail, but rather letting them know that you are facing some significant challenges and inviting them to trust God with you. Keep directing their focus towards God's unwavering support.
Romans 5:3-4 beautifully states, “Not only so, but we also glory in our sufferings, because we know that suffering produces perseverance; perseverance, character; and character, hope.” Don’t forget to share your uplifting testimonies and joyfully celebrate together as you emerge from those difficult times. By doing this, you help your children grasp that hardships can lead to personal growth and inner strength, effectively equipping them to face future challenges with confidence and resilience.
Fostering a Relationship with God: Ultimately, our goal as parents is to lead our children to a personal relationship with God. John 3:16 tells us, “For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life.” Encouraging your child to develop their faith and understand God’s love is foundational to their destiny. Engage in family devotions, attend church together, and create an atmosphere where faith is lived out daily.
As parents, let us remember the words of Jeremiah 29:11, “For I know the plans I have for you,” declares the Lord, “plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future.” we are not merely caretakers; we are the enforcers of our children’s destinies bringing them to the plan and hope God has for them.
God bless you.
Dr. Nene Oluwagbohun
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