In our journey through life, we encounter challenges that test our resilience and understanding. As adults, we carry within us the echoes of our childhood—the dreams, fears, and lessons learned. Now as Parents, we also have the responsibility to guide the younger ones in our lives. It is important to understand how we can explore and embrace both the child within us and the child in our hand with love, helping them navigate the complexities of life.
The child in our head represents the inner child—the part of us that retains the innocence, curiosity, and wonder of youth. The Bible always emphasized the importance of childlike qualities. Jesus referred to those qualities in Matthew 18:3, “Truly I tell you, unless you change and become like little children, you will never enter the kingdom of heaven.” This verse highlights the value of humility, openness, and trust that children embody.
To embrace this child within us, we must reconnect with our sense of wonder. This can be achieved through practices such as mindfulness, creativity, and reflection. By acknowledging our own fears and dreams, we become more empathetic and understanding, not only towards ourselves but also towards the children we have been given to nurture, lead, and guide.
The child in our hand represents the children in our care—our own children, students, or those we mentor. Our role is to provide them with love, guidance, and support as they navigate life’s challenges. Proverbs 22:6 states, “Start children off on the way they should go, and even when they are old they will not turn from it.” This wisdom underscores the importance of early guidance and the lasting impact it has on a child’s life.
To nurture the child in our hands, we must create a safe and loving environment. This involves active listening, validating their feelings, and encouraging their individuality. By modeling the love and acceptance we wish to instill, we help our children develop a strong sense of self-worth and resilience.
Balancing the needs of the child within us and the child we care for is essential. When we embrace our own inner child, we can approach parenting and mentorship with a fresh perspective. This alignment allows us to empathize with the struggles children face today, from academic pressures to social challenges.
Philippians 4:13, reminds us, “I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me.” This verse serves as a powerful reassurance that we are not alone in our endeavors. It reminds us that with can depend on Christ as we continuously ask Him for help and guidance. It assures us that we can tap into a wellspring of love and wisdom that empowers us to face challenges without being overwhelmed.
Here are Practical Steps for Embracing the Childlike Self and the Children in our Care with Love:
Create Open Communication: Encourage your children to express their thoughts and feelings without fear of judgment. This fosters trust and emotional intelligence in them.
Model Resilience: Share your own challenges and how you overcame them. This teaches your children that setbacks are a part of life and that perseverance is key.
Engage in Play: Spend quality time with your children to play. This not only strengthens your bond but also allows the inner child in you to flourish.
Practice Gratitude: Encourage gratitude practices within your family. Reflecting on blessings helps cultivate a positive mindset and appreciation for life’s generally.
Pray Together: Incorporating prayers in your family routine provides comfort, guidance, and an awakening of connection to a God and a higher purpose.
Embracing the child in our heads and the children in our hands requires a commitment to love, understanding, and guidance. By drawing on the wisdom of the scriptures and asking God for help we can nurture our own inner child, we equip ourselves to support our children and the younger generations as they navigate life’s challenges. Together, we can create a legacy of love, resilience, and hope that transcends generations.
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Dr. Nene Oluwagbohun
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